Tuesday, August 23, 2011

Give and Ye Shall Receive

For our own peace of mind, when we should be with a clean heart. When you 'give' hands tied neither the donor nor the recipient remains happily ever after. When we give conditionally, to spoil the relationship, even though the intentions may have been in the right place.

If Bobby's mother weaves a bridge and expect it to wear it once a week, is likely to bother him and wanted him never took the sweater in the first place. If Kenny gives Kyle a new I-phone, it's up to Kyle to do with it what you want - if he gives it to his younger brother, or resell it in the garbage dumps! Both parties are injured when delivery is loaded with expectations. Once a gift is given, no longer belongs to you. It is our ego that feels the "damage" to what appears to be a lack of gratitude. What it tells us is that our "give" was actually an attempt to "take" ... gave us, because we wanted something new!

What about the birthday gifts! Do you automatically assume that you will receive a birthday gift from the person who has given to you? Or maybe that feeling of discomfort when you realize that this does not match the dollar value of that stopped working.

Da, and then wait for the expectation of a return in kind or in the form of gratitude or recognition, only makes us beggars. When we give, that is a place of abundance and generosity. A king is broad in its account, and therefore their actions is never depleted. Therefore, I want to be a king and not a beggar! Do not think of the kings of today think of kings who had gone for treasures of wealth. And beyond that, too, the kingdom of the soul - when the soul was plentiful and generous. When all I knew was the life giving, not taking.

Also expect gratitude or more for our "to" boast of what we have given-up, or we complain that we have had to resign. We tell our children as we gave up only missed opportunities to raise them. Or that our spouse moan about not having enough time to do some "wonderful" things because we are too busy being the breadwinner. It is best to keep well away from this type of "talking sacrifice," to be a martyr not ingratiate us to anyone. Be mature and do things willingly and not under duress or "Please, people. Allow others to appreciate what you are doing, without trying to make them feel indebted to you. That's called emotional blackmail, and in these situations, no one ends up happy.

One reason for divorce is marriage a party believes that it is pulling more weight than the other. Of course, communication is important to take things to a balance, but more importantly, do things because you want them. When the exchange or attention is not done with pure intent to end up hurting ourselves and overflowing relations at risk of bitterness. When we have, or "given up" something through self-sacrifice, that is from the heart.

A soul that has more self esteem with a broader and less needy and dependent of another person who is probably also had a similar amount of emotional baggage. It is from inner fulfillment and love, the spiritual heart that we are truly capable of giving and sharing. The most abundant we feel inside, the less we need from outside. Imagine a world of donors do not assume.

Remember the saying goes "give and receive," not "receive and you give will be." In other words, give what you have and you will inevitably - but do not expect to receive before giving! The law of sowing and reaping required to "prepay". First we have to give the land before we were rewarded with a reward. We know that if our karma (actions) is good, then the fruit resulting from the seeds of our best intentions to give the best results.

So the basic principle of giving and receiving is to recover what you give. Sometimes we tantrums in our bad luck. However, checking the quality of the seed planted in the first place.

The wounded relationships, forgiveness is the key. You have to give back to the first car that has been delivered and may exhaust. We believe that forgiveness is about the other, but in truth begins with the same principle.

He never tires of giving from the heart. "Indeed, our only purpose is to give. Mother Nature gives endlessly and is also our nature to do the same. Mother Nature gives from the heart, knowing that abundance is natural law. Contrary to what one might think, when we give from the place, a place where it is abundant, is not empty.

Giving should meet, we do not run out. There is more happiness in giving than in receiving. In giving, we know we will receive and so there is no fear of insecurity. It is with the spirits of those gaps do not occur and therefore it is an empty feeling, that fear, because they have not participated in the cyclical flow natural balance of life - give and take - and do not have into account to draw from.

The time has come ... to give just for the sheer pleasure of giving. Give because you want to give. Do not boast about all the great sacrifices they did or are doing and the other party feel guilty, you have a choice, is exercise. Make sure your delivery is not an exchange, as birthday gifts, give from the heart and not wait. Once you have started the cycle of flow, watch out for avalanches, as there is more than you can handle.










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